bad girl

[kaigou]

Bad Boy/Girl, definition: Someone that the rest of the world thinks is a Bad Boy is just someone who could frankly care less what the rest of the world thinks of him.

Pursuant to the two previous posts linked, the following are random observations triggered by the comment: "You are sensitive. But you are not a Sensitive Guy. Sensitive Guys (TM) use their sensitivity to get you into bed, and it's all crap because they're going to do more whining than you in the morning anyway."

An incomplete list of Bad traits. Feel free to add your own. A Bad Boy/Girl:

1. Doesn't worry about whether you'll respect her in the morning. If you don't now, she's aware of it and probably doesn't care. She respects herself. Your respect is icing on the cake.
   
   
2. Doesn't cry, 'call me!' Bad Boys do the calling...or don't.
   
   
3. Is emotionally independent. Your support is appreciated, but not critical. There will be no superglued body parts for a Bad Girl.
   
   
4. Doesn't take shit.
   
   
5. Never asks, "will he or won't he" but "what do I want and how do I get it?"
   
   
6. Respects you enough to not treat you like a delicate flower that might be trampled, and expects the same.
   
   
7. Plays games only with consenting partners who also know when it's a game. Corrollary: a Bad Girl will call you on games.
   
   
8. Is sexually secure. Bad Boys can wear pink. Bad Girls can wear men's suits. Neither care what you assume.
   
   
9. Isn't threatened by affection, but does it because he wants it, not because there's an audience or because it's expected.

Classic Bad Boy line, from Last Picture Show.

Bobby: You a virgin?
Jacy: I guess I am.
Bobby: Too bad.
Jacy: I don't wanna be, though.
Bobby: I don't blame ya. Come see me when you're not.

EDIT: --

From 'Surrendered Single', a tip to women on dating:

She relinquishes her checklist of qualities she thinks she requires in a man. Then, she acknowledges that she can be blissfully happy with an imperfect man, and that she will definitely be lonely without one.

I'm not sure whether to gag, or fall over laughing. I'll settle for both. Twits!

Comments

[habibti.livejournal.com]

Thanks.

Love the icon.