yeah, that must have been true. I can't say, since I did not want to say no... hell, I was usually the one doing the asking, something that I am very glad I was able to do.
But relationships get short-circuited anyway, and emotional intimacy is a seperate thing, honestly. I always felt that mutual sexual pleasure could be the glue that kept a couple together long enough to establish an emotional intimacy-- if it were going to happen. And if it didn't, you had some good times and fine orgasms to look back on.
Re: Ooh, can we go into this a little bit?
Date: 7 Mar 2010 10:43 pm (UTC)I can't say, since I did not want to say no... hell, I was usually the one doing the asking, something that I am very glad I was able to do.
But relationships get short-circuited anyway, and emotional intimacy is a seperate thing, honestly. I always felt that mutual sexual pleasure could be the glue that kept a couple together long enough to establish an emotional intimacy-- if it were going to happen. And if it didn't, you had some good times and fine orgasms to look back on.