I think my problem is that I want to help -- but I'm not always good at accepting that sometimes I can't, and working out where to withdraw. Also, there is the assumption there that if someone is talking to me about a problem, they want me to fix it -- I think the biggest thing I got from your post is the fact that sometimes, just the fact that speaker is sharing this is enough.
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Date: 3 Jan 2009 05:44 am (UTC)